You, Your Husband, and His Mother

“Navigating in-law relationships is one of the most underacknowledged yet emotionally loaded parts of partnership. With clarity, compassion, and the expertise of years in the therapy room, Dr. Tracy Dalgleish gives women the tools to stop feeling like they’re walking on eggshells and start building relationships that protect their peace—and their marriage.”—Dr. Shefali Tsabary, New York Times bestselling author of The Conscious Parent“As a psychotherapist, I’ve worked with countless women carrying the silent weight of in-law stress and feeling like they’re the problem for struggling with it. Dr. Tracy Dalgleish brilliantly offers both a reframe and a roadmap. Her VAULT method is the missing language many couples need to finally get on the same team and protect what matters most: their relationship.”—Terri Cole, psychotherapist, author of Boundary Boss and Too Much, host of The Terri Cole Show “This is the book for you if you have ever felt like you have to choose between being a ‘good daughter-in-law’ and being true to yourself.”—Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play“Dr. Tracy gets it. Some of the toughest conversations aren’t only with your partner, but also with the people around them. Dr. Tracy shows you how to set boundaries without starting a war—and how to stay kind without getting steamrolled.”—Jefferson Fisher, New York Times bestselling author of The Next Conversation“With her signature blend of relatable insight and research-backed guidance, Dr. Tracy Dalgleish tackles one of the most timeless and persistent challenges in early motherhood and marriage. Offering practical strategies and grounded perspectives, she aims to reshape this dynamic for generations to come.”— Neha Ruch, USA Today bestselling author of The Power Pause“A magical combination of relatable, illuminating, and legitimately helpful. An inspiring guide to the incredibly complex emotional terrain that women so often navigate.”—Eli Harwood, MA, LPC, therapist and author of Securely Attached and Raising Securely Attached Kids“The book every daughter-in-law needs. You, Your Husband, and His Mother delivers clear, easy-to-apply tools for a variety of mother-in-law dynamics, empowering couples to set healthy boundaries and foster harmony with confidence.”—Whitney Goodman, author of Toxic Positivity and host of Calling Home

Dr. Tracy Dalgleish is a clinical psychologist, couples therapist, and sought-after relationship expert. She is the creator of Be Connected Digital, where she teaches people all over the world how to have healthy relationships. Her work has been featured in outlets like the New York Times, Forbes, and Time, and her research has appeared in peer-reviewed academic journals. She is the author of the book I Didn’t Sign Up for This and the host of the top 100 parenting podcast Dear Dr. Tracy. Owner of the mental health clinic Integrated Wellness, she lives in Ottawa with her husband and two children.