Letting Go of Perfect, 9781805017981
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Gay men’s body image struggle: find freedom from perfect.

Letting Go of Perfect

A Gay Man’s Guide to Healing from Body Dysmorphia

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  • Paperback

    272 pages

  • Release Date

    20 October 2025

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Summary

Body dysmorphia affects a significant number of gay men, driven by rigid beauty ideals and social expectations around masculinity. The pursuit of a ‘perfect’ body can quickly become all-consuming, leading to harmful patterns around food, fitness, and self-worth.

Daniel O’Shaughnessy understands this not just as a clinician but as someone who has lived it. Drawing on his experience with extreme dieting, compulsive exercise, and steroid use, he brings a rare honesty to a subject still t…

Book Details

ISBN-13:9781805017981
ISBN-10:1805017985
Author:Daniel O’Shaughnessy, Miguel Toribio-Mateas
Publisher:Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Imprint:Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Format:Paperback
Number of Pages:272
Release Date:20 October 2025
Weight:275g
Dimensions:214mm x 136mm x 26mm
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Critics Review

Body image is a real struggle in the gay community-and finally, there’s a resource that tackles it with clarity, compassion, and authenticity. Packed with honest insight and practical tools, this is a must-read for gay men and the professionals who support us. – Tom Bruett, MS, LMFT, licensed psychotherapist, author of ‘the Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men’Honest, informative and brave, Letting Go Of Perfect is a refreshing read for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever been left feeling inadequate by the gym. I needed this book fifteen years ago. Essential reading! – Philip Baldwin, LGBTQIA+ Activist

About The Author

Daniel O’Shaughnessy

Daniel O’Shaughnessy is an award-winning nutritionist and mindset coach based in London. As a Certified Functional Medicine Practitioner, he has worked for over a decade in clinical practice, drawing on earlier experience as an addiction therapist to support clients through a wide range of physical and mental health challenges. A pioneer in bridging LGBTQ+ experience with holistic health, his previous writing helped spark vital conversations around identity, wellbeing and care that truly reflects the lives of those it serves.

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