What Are You Going Through

THE BRAND-NEW NOVEL BY THE NATIONAL BOOK AWARD WINNER

A woman visits a friend with terminal cancer. Brilliant, strong-willed and alone, the friend, facing death, makes a momentous request. Will she accompany her on a holiday where she will, without warning one day, take a lethal pill to end her life on her own terms?

Shaken and grieving, she finds the strength to agree. What follows is an extraordinary story - profound, surprising and often funny - of a lifelong friendship given the ultimate challenge; to witness its end.

Utterly of our moment and timeless, What Are You Going Through is a deeply moving affirmation of life in its current existential threat and in its ordinary tragedies - the loss, loneliness, and the love that yet survives.

“Some praise for The Friend: A true delight: I genuinely fear I won't read a better novel this year - Financial Times A beautiful book . . . crammed with a world of insight into death, grief, art, and love - Wall Street Journal Very very clever. Mature. Entertaining. Eminently readable and re-readable. In short, absolutely delightful - Irish Times Delicious ... An intensely pleasurable read because it is so accessible, capacious and clever - Sunday Times - assorted”

Love, death, friendship, compassion & SO MUCH wisdom. I just adore Sigrid Nunez Paula Hawkins
If the meaning of life is that it ends, Nunez gets to the nub of meaning in her brilliant novel. I loved it as much as The Friend Susie Steiner
I was totally overwhelmed by this extraordinary novel. Even if it weren't about a subject dear to my heart I would be equally thrilled by its grace and profundity. Sentence by sentence it's a total joy - and sometimes, much to my surprise, laugh-out-loud funny Deborah Moggach
When I open one of [Sigrid Nunez's] novels, I almost always know immediately: This is where I want to be ... "What Are You Going Through" is as good as "The Friend," if not better -- Dwight Garner New York Times
A true pleasure to read, a novel bursting with wit, warmth, and human empathy Independent
Profound, moving and brilliant Mail on Sunday
Beauty, friendship, nature, art: These are the salves to loneliness and despair, and Nunez offers them all in this searching look into life and death -- Janice Y.k. Lee New York Times Book Review
Brilliant ... The narrative control of this novel simply dazzles Spectator
A riveting picture of friendship intensifying as it draws to a close ... a rich meditation on companionship, loss and love TLS
Remarkable ... powerful Observer
Both wise and unsettling ... This book's quiet discovery is that, no matter how extreme the circumstances, "life must be dealt with" Wall Street Journal
I was dazed by the novel's grace New Yorker
A smart look at the bonds and demands of friendship i Best New Books for Autumn
Fans of Rachel Cusk will love this thoughtful, wise novel ... This complex tale demands the reader's attention, but is all the more satisfying for it Good Housekeeping
A funny and moving story of two women - one of whom has terminal cancer Stylist Best Autumn Books 2020
A touching, poignant illustration of what it means to have empathy for the lives around you USA Today
A thought-provoking novel about life and death ... Nunez widens and narrows the focus of her lens, from the death of the world, to the death of a close friend and back again, with superb control. Her writing is taut, clear and insightful Evening Standard
Impossible to put down People Magazine
Dryly funny and deeply tender Kirkus Reviews (Starred)
Spectacular Publishers Weekly
Sigrid Nunez orchestrates a beautiful chorus of humanness here, and the novel asks a question we might all be thinking in these distant times: What does it mean to really be there for someone in times of hardship? Lithub
With both compassion and joy, Nunez contemplates how we survive life's certain suffering, and don't, with words and one another Booklist (starred review)
Much as in Rachel Cusk's recent work, the narrator is a conduit and sounding board for the stories of others... Deeply empathetic without being sentimental, this novel explores women's lives, their choices, and how they support one another....Highly recommended for readers who favour emotional resonance over escapism during difficult times Library Journal (starred review)
Nunez's prose is conspiratorial and elegant, whimsical and wise. Alongside a contemplation of mortality are winks: For all its pain and seriousness, life is absurd, comical; we humans are impossible to figure out - and yet so tender Oprah magazine (Best books of the year)

Sigrid Nunez is the New York Times bestselling author of The Friend, winner of the 2018 National Book Award, and of seven other novels, including Salvation City, The Last of Her Kind, and What Are You Going Through. She is also the author of Sempre Susan: A Memoir of Susan Sontag. Her books have been translated into over thirty languages.

THE BRAND-NEW NOVEL BY THE NATIONAL BOOK AWARD WINNER A woman visits a friend with terminal cancer. Brilliant, strong-willed and alone, the friend, facing death, makes a momentous request. Will she accompany her on a holiday where she will, without warning one day, take a lethal pill to end her life on her own terms?Shaken and grieving, she finds the strength to agree. What follows is an extraordinary story - profound, surprising and often funny - of a lifelong friendship given the ultimate challenge; to witness its end. Utterly of our moment and timeless, What Are You Going Through is a deeply moving affirmation of life in its current existential threat and in its ordinary tragedies - the loss, loneliness, and the love that yet survives.

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