Telling Each Other the Truth

In his bestselling Telling Yourself the Truth, William Backus showed that biblical truth, properly believed and used, has power to bring emotional health to people. Now in Telling Each Other the Truth, he demonstrates that truth can also heal relationships. Truth heals the hurts between people as well as the hurts inside them. Developing principles that bring health and strength to interpersonal relationships, Dr. Backus provides the reader with: Insight for speaking the truth in love rather than accusation and defensiveness. Methods to avoid manipulating. The freedom to say no. Keys to listening to what others are saying. Skills to help wrap the truth in love. Training in social conversation--truth seasoned with salt. What a difference it makes when we know what to say, how to say it, and when the time is right.

Dr. William Backus is founder of the Center for Christian Psychological Services, and an ordained clergyman in the Lutheran church. He is also a licensed Consulting Psychologist. He has a master's degree in theology from Concordia Seminary in St. Louis and a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Minnesota. Dr. Backus has conducted follow-up studies of his clients, which show a 95 percent improvement rate, compared to a 67 percent success rate for other methods of therapy. The difference, Dr. Backus says, is "the truth of God as revealed in the Word." In addition, he serves as an assistant pastor on the staff of North Heights Lutheran Church, Roseville, Minnesota, where he has founded and directed a lay-staffed free counseling clinic. He and his wife live in Minnesota.

How to Speak the Truth in LoveThis practical guide will be invaluable in every relationship of life--especially those that don't come easy. Putting into practice the time-tested principles within this book will enable you to interact effectively with family, friends, co-workers, and other important people in your life. Learn how to: restore the respect needed for healing damaged relationships foster better listening skills overcome the tendency to manipulate others in conversation avoid the destructive effects of accusation and defensivenessDiscover the difference it makes when you know what to say, how to say it, and when to speak the truth in love--the art of true communication. You'll love the life-changing freedom that comes from telling each other the truth .William Backus was founder of the Center for Christian Psychological Services, a licensed consulting psychologist, and an ordained minister. Other books he has written include Telling Yourself the Truth and What Your Counselor Never Told You . Dr. Backus passed away in June 2005.

Proven, Healing Ways to Speak the Truth in LoveNow in a fresh package, this classic on learning the art of true communication is good news for all. The author uses Scripture, case histories, and dialogue to impart timeless principles that can heal damaged relationships, strengthen everyday communication, and help people avoid the traps of manipulation that often disrupt the free flow of honest discussion. Readers will find this information invaluable in every relationship of life--especially those that don't come easy.

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