Dad's Maybe Book

“If this does, in fact, prove to be the last thing he writes, it is a touching conclusion to a literary career that has left us with a shelf of enduring novels, memoirs and short stories. Mr. O’Brien, like Hemingway, didn’t necessarily write about war as much as something larger: our shared humanity.” –Wall Street Journal ”[A] stirring blend of memoir, letters to his young sons, and meditations on the humbling nature of parenthood … It’s a work that’s the spiritual inheritor of John Steinbeck’s Travels With Charley and Kurt Vonnegut’s A Man Without a Country. Like those, Dad’s Maybe Book dwells on the state of America and American life. He takes absolutism to task, finds qualifications for his own pacifism and considers the paradox of a moral society that allows for forever war.” –TIME Magazine “Brilliant … To say the book is about ‘fatherhood’ is akin to saying that Catch-22 is about World War II.” –VVA Veteran (Vietnam Veterans of America) “This moving, heart-wrenching book, so raw in the best of all senses, will make you weep after exulting in life’s energies and ‘maybes.’ It is genuinely human at every level.” –Providence Journal “[A] poignant, resolute meditation on parenthood and on life.” –The Oregonian “Tim O’Brien is back in top form … Rather than as a war writer, O’Brien might also object to being thought of as a spiritual writer, the way one thinks of Camus, Hemingway, or Tolstoy. But there he is. One of the essentials.” –DeWitt Henry, Woven Tale Press “This book should resonate with any parent who lies awake at night pondering the meaning of existence and what sort of legacy should be left behind … a satisfying finale to O’Brien’s illustrious career.” –Lincoln Journal Star “A bountiful treasury of fatherly advice, memoir, literary criticism, history, political commentary, and a dash of magic and miracles … There are smiles and tears awaiting the reader on every page of this often emotionally charged book, and enough wisdom in it about what it means to be a parent, and a decent human being, to fuel many hours of personal recollection and reflection.” –BookReporter “A gorgeous book, a love letter and legacy.” –Psychology Today’s “One True Thing” blog “This loving gift to [O’Brien’s] now-teenage sons is sprinkled with literary criticism, writing tips, thoughts on his relationship with his father and philosophy on aging and mortality … Tender and hilarious.” –Minneapolis Star Tribune “[O’Brien] poignantly captures the trials of parenthood… Interspersed throughout are memoiristic chapters sharing his fears and political awakening during his military service in Vietnam and passionately articulating his antiwar beliefs. Like most dads, O’Brien carries the hopes, fears, and dreams of his children in his own heart.” –Booklist “A warm account of life as an older dad with two growing sons.” –Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel “A collection of–among other things–briefly noted moments that would have most likely been forgotten: letters from a father to his sons, detailed chapters about a Purple Heart recipient’s experiences in Vietnam and O’Brien’s fondness for Ernest Hemingway.” –The Arts Fuse “A candid, vulnerable, and honest portraitof the challenges, humor, and rewards of raising two sons, as well as the lessons learned trying to survive in wartime, trying to find internal peace in peacetime, and trying to get your kids to fall asleep at bedtime.” –American Writers Museum blog “A moving meditation on fatherhood.” –The National, Amtrak’s magazine “Touching … A dazzling dedication to life, love, and fatherhood.” –Austin Monthly “Tim O’Brien has written amazingly powerful novels. Now he’s gifting us with a terrific book of personal essays. His every just-the-right word about family, history, war, literature, and love dispatched tears and laughter and contemplation into my brain and heart.” –Orange County Register “Is this a book? Maybe. Actually, it’s at least three … Ultimately, it is a book about those boys and his unbounded love for them.” –New York Times Book Review “O’Brien uses his deft skill of wordplay throughout this latest book … Fans of parenting books, memoirs, and stories of Vietnam War veterans will find enjoyment in these heartfelt words.” –Library Journal “[A] tender memoir … With great candor, O’Brien succeeds in conveying the urgency parents may feel at any age, as they ready their children for life without them.” –Publishers Weekly “O’Brien writes of the bitter irony of being known as a war writer, ‘despite my hatred for war, despite my ineptitude at war, despite my abiding shame at having participated in war.’” –Pittsburgh Post-Gazette

TIM O’BRIEN’s acclaimed novels include The Things They Carried, July, July, and Going After Cacciato, which received the 1979 National Book Award in fiction.