
You Are Not a Diagnosis
The Therapy-Speak Trap and the Lost Art of Listening to Ourselves
$37.44
- Hardcover
304 pages
- Release Date
1 December 2026
Summary
Bestselling author and clinical psychologist Tanya Byron makes an urgent call to find the strength to sit with the pain of being human, rather than seek refuge in labels.
We live in a world fluent in therapy-speak - where every bad day is ‘depression’, every worry is ‘anxiety’, and every disappointment is ‘trauma’. But what if this language, meant to heal, is stopping us from feeling what’s real?
In You Are Not A Diagnosis, acclaimed clinical psychologist Professor Ta…
Book Details
| ISBN-13: | 9780241718100 |
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| ISBN-10: | 0241718104 |
| Author: | Tanya Byron |
| Publisher: | Penguin Books Ltd |
| Imprint: | Penguin Life |
| Format: | Hardcover |
| Number of Pages: | 304 |
| Release Date: | 1 December 2026 |
| Weight: | 500g |
| Dimensions: | 222mm x 138mm x 40mm |
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Critics Review
In a world where more and more of life is being diagnosed as disordered, this book invites us to pause, think critically and remember that distress is not an illness, and that too often diagnostic labels obscure our deeply human stories of pain, adversity, meaning and healing – Jo Watson, AD4E
A caring and careful corrective. Tanya Byron insists with Freud that ordinary unhappinesses are what make us human while inviting us into the psychologists’ craft, scholarship and understandings to provide a clarifying, compassionate and comprehensive account about the work of doing psychotherapy. – Susie Orbach
Everything Professor Tanya says is sparkling and brilliant and full of insight. This is an important book and I inhaled it. – Claudia Winkleman
A hard-hitting and important book, full of humanity and warmth in its exploration of topics which all of us - young and old - need to understand. – Julia Samuel, bestselling author and psychotherapist
You can feel broken without being broken. Tanya Byron has written a wise, compassionate and deeply necessary book for a world that has learned to label pain faster than it learns to listen to it. – Simon Gilham, author of STOP LYING TO YOURSELF
Drawing on thirty years of clinical practice and her own experience of misreading grief as depression, in this fascinating new book, Byron separates mental illness from the ordinary pain and suffering that comes with being human. Challenging the growing culture of social media self-diagnosis, she offers a compassionate guide to rebuilding our resilience and recovering the art of therapeutic conversation. – Professor Sarah-Jayne Blakemore, Chair of Psychology, Cambridge University
About The Author
Tanya Byron
Professor Tanya Byron
Professor Tanya Byron is a consultant clinical psychologist with over thirty years’ experience working with children, adolescents, families, and adults. She is also a bestselling author, with works including The Skeleton Cupboard: The Making of a Clinical Psychologist.
Widely recognised for her ability to communicate psychological insights to the public with nuance and clarity, she has advised national and international governments on mental health and digital safety. Professor Byron also writes an acclaimed weekly column for The Times and has fronted numerous BBC programmes focusing on parenting, child development, mental health, behavioural issues, and psychology.
Her work integrates clinical expertise, compelling storytelling, and a strong dedication to improving the understanding and compassionate support of mental health.
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