Loyal in His Love

‘Amid what the surgeon general has called ‘an epidemic of loneliness’, Loyal in His Love stands as a salient reminder that a quality relationship with our maker is indeed more than a platitude. Panariso highlights the root of contemporary spiritual malaise in tandem with trauma experts who consider all trauma as occurring within the context of relationship. This work is timely, applicable, and one of the most hard-hitting commentaries on what the absence of quality connection to God’s love has done to recent generations, while also offering a gentle reminder of and steps toward reclaiming our rightful connection to the Father.’ * Joshua Kreimeyer, associate professor of counseling, Colorado Christian University *‘As followers of Christ, we often struggle with how to speak to the wounds and rejection that all of us face at one point or another. Tabitha serves as a tender guide, using the Word and her own experience to advise us on how to navigate these seasons honestly without being swallowed by bitterness. This is a much needed resource for the body of Christ.’ * Brenna Blain, contemporary theologian and author *‘Have you ever felt abandoned by someone you should have been able to trust or profoundly hurt and disillusioned by the church? If so, you are not alone. Through personal narrative, honest reflection, psychological insight, and gospel hope, Tabitha Panariso reminds us amid our fears and threatening cynicism that ‘God is not only with us, but God is for us!’ Unlike people and institutions that fail and falter, Christ is faithful, calling us beloved and welcoming us to practice resurrection, not by denying the hard stuff, but by discovering the depth of his love and kindness.’ * Kelly M. Kapic, author of You’re Only Human *‘If you’ve ever felt the bitter sting of rejection, this book is meant to find you. With a full-bodied call to reacquaint ourselves with the God who sees us and walks with us, Tabitha steps into these pages as a light bearer and witness to the goodness of God. As you’ll learn through this story unfolding, she isn’t afraid to go first in sharing her scars and testimonies. Laced with beautiful breath prayers that serve as rest stops throughout, this book is a redemptive invitation to learn how to walk differently through the pain with resilience and faith to guide your path.’ * Hannah Brencher, author of The Unplugged Hours and Come Matter Here *‘Loyal in His Love is a balm for the broken-hearted, a gentle hand extended to those crushed by rejection. Tabitha’s words do more than soothe; they breathe life into the weary soul like a kindred friend. With a poet’s grace and a therapist’s precision, she invites us to see rejection not as a final blow but as a divine invitation to deeper intimacy with God. Within the pages, you’ll find more than fleeting comfort–you’ll find the steady pulse of Christ’s love, a love that restores, revives, and reshapes our pain into a vessel of hope. This book is not just a healing remedy but a lifeline to the heart that needs to know that rejection does not define them–God’s loyal pursuit does.’ * Charaia Rush, author of Courageously Soft *‘Loyal in His Love is a compelling and grace-filled invitation to encounter the redemptive love of Jesus Christ in the midst of deep emotional wounds caused by rejection, abandonment, and betrayal. Tabitha Panariso masterfully weaves personal story and biblical truth, reminding us that God meets us in our brokenness and joyfully brings healing. This book offers hope and restoration to those who feel abandoned or rejected, guiding readers to experience the transformative healing power of the gospel in their lives.’ * Justin S. Holcomb, bishop, author, and seminary professor *‘Rejection stings, especially to a weary soul–but God’s love is the healing balm to restoring even the most painful things. That truth is so beautifully woven into Tabitha’s book, Loyal in His Love. It’s poetic, dreamy, and embedded with God’s truth. What a gift to readers everywhere!’ * Toni Collier, speaker, podcast host, and author of Brave Enough to Be Broken and Broken Crayons Still Color *‘Tabitha’s words cut to the heart of our performance and perfectionism, stripping away the layers we’ve built up from years of being rejected. Through Scripture’s truths, she empowers readers to follow Christ’s example into forgiveness, not bitterness, into security, not scarcity, and into freedom rather than bondage. I recommend this book to any Christian desiring to trade the approval of people for the unchanging favor of God.’ * Phylicia Masonheimer, founder and CEO, Every Woman a Theologian *‘This book is a love letter to every one of us who have ever felt abandoned or rejected, forgotten by a world that only seems to celebrate the shiny, shiny perfect people, the ones who have never known what it’s like to have hard in their story. Tabitha’s words–equal parts pain, poetry, and salve to still-open wounds–took me by the hand and reminded me that my worth and belonging were never up to other people. At a time when we’ve never felt lonelier, I can’t think of a more desperately needed message. Honest, raw, compelling, and most of all, healing, Loyal in His Love is a must-read!’ * Mary Marantz, bestselling author of Dirt and Underestimated, host of The Mary Marantz Show *‘This book is a master class in healing from rejection. It is equal parts page-turning memoir, profound theology, practical teaching, and timeless spiritual wisdom. Tabitha has mined the deepest depths of her story to unearth the truest truths, all of which she envelops with gentle, exhilarating hope. If you have experienced rejection in your life, this book will leave you feeling not only seen but also shepherded and restored.’ * Sharon Hodde Miller, author of The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises *

Tabitha Panariso is a licensed professional counselor candidate (MA, LPCC), writer, and speaker dedicated to blending Christian faith, theology, and counseling into the fabric of everyday life. At the heart of Tabitha’s work is a deep commitment to holding space for life’s darkest moments and guiding others toward wholeness with compassion and clarity. She and her husband live with their three children in Colorado Springs, Colorado.