Beautiful Lives

'This book is both heart-rending and gorgeous. It crosses the line many times but ultimately, it's about love. He teaches us humanity.' MIRIAM MARGOLYES

'Thank you, Joey, for getting your dad off his arse to write this book.' HUGH BONNEVILLE

'A beautiful book - powerful, persuasive, illuminating, moving.' GYLES BRANDRETH

'This is a wonderful and important book. Beautifully written, of course; but full of pain and joy, concern and celebration.' SIMON RUSSELL BEALE

'A powerful, multi-faceted, myth-busting account of the most marginalised and belittled out-group in modern society.' SIMON JARRETT, author of Those They Called Idiots

For much of history, people with learning disabilities have been regarded as unworthy of interest - often seen as a threat to the social order and sometimes dismissed as barely human. While recent years have seen an improvement, learning-disabled people are still treated as fundamentally different.

Beautiful Lives is a personal and pragmatic account, told through the eyes of a father whose son has severe learning disabilities. From early civilisation to the chilling realities of twentieth-century eugenics, this powerful book uncovers a startling and rarely told history - one deeply embedded in the challenges still faced today.

Unwin shapes this history into a powerful story of love, lived experience and the long struggle for a better future.

A beautiful book - powerful, persuasive, illuminating, moving. -- Gyles Brandreth, Broadcaster and former Member of Parliament
Unwin's marvellous, elegant, moving book is a major contribution to both the history and understanding of this thing we call learning disability . . . it is a powerful, multi-faceted, myth-busting account of the most marginalised and belittled group in modern society. -- Simon Jarrett, author of THOSE THEY CALLED IDIOTS
This book is both heartrending and gorgeous. It crosses the line many times but ultimately it's about love. He teaches us humanity. -- Miriam Margolyes, actor
This is a superbly written, even entertaining treatment of a sombre topic - how people with learning disabilities are marginalised and ignored. I could not recommend it more highly. -- Jan Walmsley, Visiting Chair of Learning Disability History, Open University
A profoundly affecting book that also provides a manifesto for the future. No reader will be left unchallenged by this incredible and important book. No reader will be left untouched. -- Lucy Easthope, author of WHEN THE DUST SETTLES
With an astonishing breadth of research and a profoundly personal narrative, Stephen Unwin's book on society's treatment of those living with learning disabilities is revealing, wise, angry and hopeful. Thank you, Joey, for getting your dad off his arse to write this book. -- Hugh Bonneville, actor
This is a must-read for anyone wanting to develop a deeper, more humanistic understanding of this area. -- Professor Sara Ryan, author of JUSTICE FOR LAUGHING BOY
This is a wonderful and important book. Beautifully written, of course; but full of pain and joy, concern and celebration. -- Simon Russell Beale, actor
Beautiful Lives is a book that should be compulsory reading for every politician and every GP. His life and career are about words, but Joey has taught Stephen that there are so many other ways in which to communicate - that a touch, or a look can make words redundant. I hope that Joey's voice, amplified by his father, will be heard and understood. A beautiful life indeed. -- Baroness Rosa Monckton, campaigner
Erudite, wise, and beautifully written; but above all, a labour of love. -- Dominic Lawson, journalist
It's the kind of book I dreamt of having when my son's learning disability and possible autism were mooted when he was just two years old. Beautiful Lives is both scholarly, and personal, erudite and profound, historical and bang up to date. It is not sentimental, rather it's realistic and hopeful in equal measure. Readers will feel safe to explore changing attitudes over time without feeling judged and to re-examine their own attitudes. -- Baroness Sheila Hollins, psychiatrist and campaigner
[An] important, intensively researched and beautifully written book . . . I hope that anyone in a position to make positive change will read it and consider carefully how we can move a little closer towards recognising and accepting that every human life is equal in value and every person has the right to be happy. -- Jane Asher, President of the National Autistic Society
Stephen Unwin examines the horrific stigmatisation of people with learning disabilities in this highly personal, occasionally-polemical and sometimes-profound book that reminds society of the real meaning of humanity. -- Ian Birrell, journalist
As a politician who has advocated for people with learning disabilities, I found Beautiful Lives a powerful read . . . His critique of policy and the current state of care makes Beautiful Lives essential reading for all those shaping policy or providing healthcare and those who care about the lives of people with learning disabilities. - -- Baroness Keeley, politician and campaigner
Unwin brings his many talents as literary scholar, author, advocate and social critic to this engaging and moving work. At once a sweeping history, a call to action, and a father's loving tribute to his son, Beautiful Lives is a remarkable book. It offers the reader a detailed chronicle of the past, a searing indictment of the present, and a powerful glimpse of a more humane and just future. In the process, Unwin honours the rich array of beautiful lives, lived and lost, that together reveal a more "creative conception of what it is to be human". -- Prof. Licia Carlson, author of THE FACES OF INTELLECTUAL DISABILITY
Stephen Unwin's capacious account unmasks historic attitudes towards intellectual disabilities, and shows how these need to change so as to create a better world for all. Drawn from life with his son, Joey, this convincing book reminds us why people with disabilities are fundamental to who we are as human beings. -- Rosemarie Garland-Thomson, Professor Emerita of English and Bioethics at Emory University
A superb book that achieves something very rare: being both authoritative and profoundly human. -- John Harris, journalist and author of MAYBE I'M AMAZED

Stephen Unwin is one of Britain's leading theatre and opera directors. He founded English Touring Theatre in 1993 and opened the Rose Theatre Kingston in 2008, which he ran until 2014. He is the author of ten books, including guides to Shakespeare, Brecht, Ibsen and twentieth-century drama for Faber, Nick Hern Books and Bloomsbury. In 2022, Reaktion Books published Poor Naked Wretches, an original and much praised study of Shakespeare's working people.

Stephen's second son Joey has severe learning disabilities and Stephen is a campaigner for the rights and opportunities of people like him. His stage plays include All Our Children (London, 2017; New York 2019) and Laughing Boy (London, 2024), both of which concern the historic abuse of disabled children and young people. He writes a regular column for Byline Times, mostly on disability, as well as a popular blog on his website.

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