Love’s Labour

‘An exceptional writer and psychoanalyst … the poet laureate of human emotion’ * Elizabeth Day, author of How to Fail *‘A profound meditation on love and healing. Powerful and important. Essential reading’ * Tara Westover, author of Educated *‘Love really is a labour: that’s something they don’t tell you in the fairy stories or the reality shows. But Stephen Grosz knows a lot about the pain and joy of human relationships and in this book he generously shares his wisdom with the rest of us’ * Zadie Smith, author of The Fraud *‘Full of moments of revelation that stay with you forever … It would not be humanly possible for me to recommend his work more highly’ * India Knight, author of Home *‘Reading Stephen Grosz is a deep sort of pleasure, and this book’s movingly told true stories left me feeling wiser and more open to life’ * Oliver Burkeman, author of Four Thousand Weeks *‘This is a special book, full of little epiphanies. Grosz combines illuminating stories from therapy with such beautiful writing that you forget these people are his patients and not fictional characters. He reminds us how complex love is, how much it requires of us, and how many times we can misunderstand each other – and ourselves – in the process. It’s a love story about the relationship between lovers, between a therapist and patient, and between us all, if we are brave enough to attempt it’ * Natasha Lunn, author of Conversations on Love *‘Grosz’s transfixing stories will increase your openness to and aptitude for the greatest of all emotions: you will be better at love after you read this book’ * Andrew Solomon, author of The Noonday Demon *‘Stephen Grosz is a beautiful writer, a clear, compelling thinker, an observant, wise, and deeply empathetic human being’ * Nick Hornby, author of Funny Girl *‘Full of thought prompts and ideas that resonate long after you finish the book … It’s a strange, thoughtful, deeply compelling book’ * Pandora Sykes *‘This is a beautiful book’ * Nigella Lawson *

Stephen Grosz is a practicing psychoanalyst and has worked with patients for more than forty years. Born in America, he was educated at the University of California, Berkeley, and at Oxford University, and now lives in London. His Number One Sunday Times bestseller, The Examined Life, has been translated into more than thirty languages. He lives in London.