The Jewish American Paradox

“A revolutionary (some would say heretical) revision.”–The New York Times Book Review“An accomplished facilitator of negotiation, Robert Mnookin offers a master course in negotiating the most important questions a person–or a people–can confront. His focus on the contemporary challenges of Jewish identity–whether religious, social, familial, or ethnic–illuminates the larger issue of what it is to be self-critically human in a world for which few feel sufficiently prepared, much less at home. The Jewish American Paradox is an important book for Jews, Americans, and everyone who hopes for a better future.” –James Carroll, author of Constantine’s Sword and The Cloister“An extremely thoughtful and readable book. It allows the reader to get an inside view of the thinking that many American Jews may share but from the pen of an astute and highly-thoughtful individual who has extensive training in analyzing issues, policies, and approaches.”–American Jewish Archives Journal“In a book at once deeply personal and deeply learned, one of America’s leading intellectuals invites us to a fascinating conversation about what it means to be Jewish in contemporary America and the challenges facing the American Jewish community.”–Robert D. Putnam, professor of public policy, Harvard, and author of American Grace: How Religion Divides and Unites Us“Mnookin … uses his considerable negotiation talents to gain a better understanding of, and to help us navigate the complexity of the American Jewish identity.”–Mount Vernon Times“Mnookin jumps off the pages as a master teacher, a charming intellectual companion. He knows how to challenge substantively, disagree agreeably and spark discussion amicably. His book beautifully summarizes modern Judaism - and the modern Jewish American condition…. And he’s practical not just theoretical.”–Jewish Journal“Mnookin presents a terrific case that Judaism should be a welcoming umbrella. My whole Jewish education was based on what you cannot do, what you cannot eat, when you cannot drive, play ball, etc. This book focuses on what you can do–embrace an ancient tradition and identify with a group. It is a call to stop feeling oppressed–an optimistic, almost non-doctrinal, evangelism.”–Harold Holzer, Lincoln historian and director of Roosevelt House at Hunter“Robert Mnookin has composed a challenging roadmap for American Jewry. Traditionalists will dismiss it as further proof of American Jewish decline. But others will rejoice that a serious voice from the less religiously observant Jewish majority sings so clearly, directly, and potentially instructively about the American Jewish future.”–Florida Sun-Sentinel “The questions that this book raises are right on target and should be considered by all of us.”–The Jewish Advocate“Utilizing his expertise in the art of negotiation, Mnookin makes his case for a definition of Jewish identity that is wide and inclusive, knowing full well that many will disagree. In this respect, Mnookin is brave; while many writers have unpacked the challenges and questions of modern Jewry, few have the courage to try to answer those questions.”–The Jewish BookCouncil

Robert H. Mnookin is the Samuel Williston Professor of Law at Harvard Law School, the Chair of the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School, and the Director of the Harvard Negotiation Research Project. Before joining the Harvard faculty, Professor Mnookin was the Adelbert H. Sweet Professor of Law at Stanford Law School and the Director of the Stanford Center on Conflict and Negotiation. At Stanford, he chaired the Jewish Community Federation and served as president of the Stanford Hillel Foundation. Between 1994 and 2003, he served on the International Board of the New Israel Fund as its Secretary and Treasurer. A leading scholar in the field of conflict resolution, Professor Mnookin is the author of nine books , including most recently Bargaining with the Devil: When to Negotiate, When to Fight.