The Sex You Want

“Rena Martine’s The Sex You Want is a revelation in the realm of self-discovery and authenticity. With a deft touch, Martine ushers readers into a world where shame is replaced by empowerment, and where embracing one’s true sexual self leads to a life of fulfillment and genuine connection. This book is a compass for those seeking a more meaningful and passionate existence, and Rena Martine’s wisdom shines brightly as a guiding star.” – MaryCatherine McDonald, PhD, author of Unbroken: The Trauma Response is Never Wrong
“The best sex you can possibly have starts with authenticity, and Rena Martine proves it. The Sex You Want includes hands-on practices to rinse out any shame you’ve got about sex, and replaces it with a life that reflects the sexual person you already are.” – Emily Morse, Founder + Host of Sex With Emily
“There is no hope for great sex (or a great life, actually) when we are filled with shame. Rena Martine has written a gorgeous, pink-carpeted pathway out of the shame, guilt, and self-doubt that restricts and shuts down our aliveness. Open these pages and step into the expansion you have longed for!” – Regena (Mama gena) Thomashauer, New York Times best-selling author of Pussy: A Reclamation, founder of The School of Womanly Arts
“What a treasure to have a sex-positive, educationally accurate and clinically effective book for those seeking pleasure, permission and true empowerment. Rena Martine’s journey into sexual liberation is a must-read for anyone taking their first steps toward a more passionate life.” – Holly Richmond, Ph.D., Certified Sex Therapist and Author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life
“On my own path, I’ve found that romantic liberation is anything but linear. The good news is, that means we never stop growing. The exercises in this book generously help readers navigate the labyrinth that is attempting to live a freer, sexier, more joyful life.” – Rachel Krantz, author of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy
“Every woman needs to read this book. Rena’s approach to sexual healing is direct, profound, and expansive. I learned new ways to honor my sexual past that leave me feeling lighter, connected, and confidently sensual. ” – Nadège, sex scholar, bestselling author, and founder of Pleasure Science
“Martine weaves personal anecdotes and solid education to create a guidebook for anyone looking to expand their sexual horizons. The Sex You Want is the perfect book for anyone who is feeling like their sex life is missing that special something and are looking for real life, real human examples for how to take it to the next level” – Allison Moon, author of Getting It
“Rena Martine didn’t just write a powerful book, she created a new genre - Sex Betterment. The Sex You Want isn’t just about sexuality and how to have the kind of sex you’ve always wanted but about building a better life and relationship with the self. This needs to be on every nightstand, especially men’s.” – John Kim, LMFT (The Angry Therapist), author of Single. On Purpose.

Rena Martine is a women’s intimacy coach and educator. Her writing has been published on Medium and Bustle, and she is a frequent podcast guest on the subjects of sex, intimacy, and relationships. She lives and works in Los Angeles.

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