Choose Your Self

“Choose Your Self is a relatable and clear guide for embracing the relationship you have with the most important person in your life–you. I highly recommend it!” –Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT, author of ‘Til Stress Do Us Part

“Choose Your Self by Megan Sherer gives such beautiful, accessible tools to come home to your truest self and to fall in love with your life along the way.” –Ruthie Lindsey, speaker, transformational coach, and author of There I Am

“Choose Your Self is a breath of fresh air for all the women who have been choking on incomplete dating advice that leaves self-compassion out of the equation. This is a book for a generation of women who, more than anything, long to be seen. Megan’s words will leave you feeling lighter, yet somehow more whole at the same time.” –Parm K.C., author of You Will Feel Whole Again and Eggshells

“Relationships come and go… but the relationship to yourself always remains. Megan Sherer is both correct and insightful in her assertion that the relationship we have to ourselves is perhaps the most important one we ever have, and navigating that with compassion, doses of self-care, and a healthy amount of self-worth is critical for developing strong relationships–first with ourself, before anyone else. I applaud Megan’s forthrightness in acknowledging the plight of the modern woman who is saddled with so much pressure and expectation, and giving her the freedom to choose what is most right for her.” –Alanna Kaivalya, PhD, author of The Way of the Satisfied Woman

“Choose Your Self is a liberating guide for every woman ready to embrace her own worth, heal deeply, and find fulfillment from within. Megan Sherer’s compassionate wisdom provides the tools to break free from societal expectations, nurturing the most crucial relationship we have: the one with ourselves. If you’re ready to put yourself first and build a life you genuinely love, this book is a powerful place to start.” –Wendy Valentine, host of The Midlife Makeover Show and author of Women Waking Up

“Choose Your Self feels like a warm hug and a wake-up call rolled into one. Megan beautifully reminds us that the love we are fervently searching for is already ours and begins with the person in the mirror. This book is not here to tell you that you should just be OK with being single–it’s about realizing that nothing from the outside can make you whole. You are already whole! Her words shake you up from the inside and rearrange the belief that romantic love is superior in such a way that both single-dom and partnership become extraneous when you are able to drink from the well of self-love each and every day. If you’re ready to stop waiting for life to start and ready to choose love, this book is for you.” –Samantha Chung, cohost of the Spiraling Higher podcast

“Choose Your Self is an empowering guide for any woman who gets that the relationships we desire with others start with the relationship we have with ourselves. Megan has pulled together many inspiring, practical, and enlightening ways to stop feeling bad about your relationship status and instead focus your energy on exploring and enjoying the deeper vs. superficial path of self-love.” –Christine Arylo, leadership advisor, author, and founder of The Path of Self Love

Megan Sherer is a licensed holistic therapist and relationship mentor whose mission is to help others connect to their most authentic expression of love. She teaches women how to prioritize self-care to build confidence, healthy relationships, and a strong sense of purpose. She hosts the Well, Then podcast and founded the nonprofit organization Be More and self-guided therapy app The Self Care Space. She lives in Washington and travels to lead women’s retreats.