
Do Ask, Do Tell
Queer Life, Love and Culture Laid Bare
$58.13
- Hardcover
272 pages
- Release Date
27 May 2025
Summary
What is a black cat lesbian? Is ‘aromantic’ a sexuality or a preference? How are bisexual and pansexual different? What’s it like to be queer and religious? Does Gen Z do darkrooms? How do you navigate life as a OAQ (Old Age Queer)? What does trans euphoria feel like? Why is nightlife so central to the community? What is camp today?
As queer people themselves, authors Lotte Jeffs and Stu Oakley knew they didn’t have all the answers, because their individual experience represents a sin…
Book Details
| ISBN-13: | 9781035042074 |
|---|---|
| ISBN-10: | 103504207X |
| Author: | Lotte Jeffs, Stu Oakley |
| Publisher: | Pan Macmillan |
| Imprint: | Bluebird |
| Format: | Hardcover |
| Number of Pages: | 272 |
| Release Date: | 27 May 2025 |
| Weight: | 452g |
| Dimensions: | 26mm x 162mm x 244mm |
| Audience Age: | 18 |

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Critics Review
Written with warmth, wisdom and uncompromising wit, Jeffs & Oakley invite us to explore the bold and beautiful realities of queer existence in an ever-increasingly intolerant world. – Charlie Condou
Both a beginner’s guide and a deep dive. * Attitude *
This warm, funny read tackles the questions you may have avoided asking for fear of getting it wrong. * Good Housekeeping *
Bold, funny and radically honest. * Gaydio *
Essential reading. An absolute ride through queer culture with some unreal insights. – Founder of Sink the Pink * Glyn Fussell *
Written with warmth, wisdom and uncompromising wit, Jeffs & Oakley invite us to explore the bold and beautiful realities of queer existence in an ever-increasingly intolerant world * Charlie Condou *
Bursting with empathy, understanding and humour. A crucial book for our community and allies. * Suzi Ruffell *
Lotte Jeffs
Lotte Jeffs and Stu Oakley are the authors of The Queer Parent and hosts of the award-winning Some Families, the UK’s leading LGBTQ+ parenting podcast.
Lotte is a leading journalist and author of acclaimed novel This Love and children’s book My Magic Family.
Stu Oakley is a film publicist and occasional freelance journalist, having written for The Guardian, Grazia, ELLE and Attitude. In his day job he has worked on some of the biggest film franchises of all time including Star Wars, Harry Potter and Jurassic World.
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