Secure Love

“As a therapist, I’ve seen thousands of people desperately wanting better relationships but not knowing what that means or how to create them. In Secure Love, Julie Menanno offers a practical, easy-to-understand guide to how attachment theory underlies the challenging patterns we bring into adult relationships and what we can all do to create the secure, lasting love we desire. This is a must-read for every couple, at any stage of their relationship.” –Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone and co-host of the “Dear Therapists” podcast

“An incredibly wise and helpful guide to help all of us fabulously flawed humans give and receive the love we deserve. No romantic partnership should be without it.” –Jen Sincero, #1 New York Times bestselling author of You Are a Badass

“With Secure Love, you’ll be armed with eternal wisdom for strengthening your relationship. Julie Menanno exquisitely explores the science behind attachment theory, how our earliest relationships impact our relationships today, and how to create a deeper bond together. A must-read for any couple or therapist.” –Dr. Sue Johnson, founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT) and bestselling author of Hold Me Tight

“Compassionate, humane, and extremely helpful. Julie Menanno’s Secure Love is a must-read for anyone wanting to improve their relationships and gain a greater understanding of why they had trouble in the first place. Becoming a better partner is a lifelong journey, and Menanno’s book is a vital part of that path.” –Kati Morton, LMFT and bestselling author of Are u ok? & Traumatized

“An essential, empowering, and practical guide to navigating relationships. Filled with real-life examples from her work as a therapist, Julie Menanno teaches us how to connect with our partners to create a felt sense of safety, security, and comfort, even when challenging times inevitably emerge.” –Jessica Baum, author of Anxiously Attached

Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC

Julie Menanno is a licensed marriage and family therapist with an MA. She is also an LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) and LCPC (Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor).

Julie provides insight and advice for couples on Instagram, where her handle is @TheSecureRelationship, and has garnered over one million followers.

She is the founder and director of the Bozeman Therapy & Counseling clinic and The Secure Relationship Coaching.

Julie resides in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband and their six children.