Includes nine thoroughly explained techniques for creating change in a marital partner. Each technique is supported with short, vivid examples from real life and they address the most common problems encountered in marriage.
Includes nine thoroughly explained techniques for creating change in a marital partner. Each technique is supported with short, vivid examples from real life and they address the most common problems encountered in marriage.
In contrast to what most people think, it is not only possible for spouses to change each other, it is the usual occurrence in lasting marriages. In part his happens because few people are truly prepared for marriage and everyone learns as they go along. The problem is that people rarely understand their power to change their mates, so that happens haphazardly. The premise of How to Change Your Spouse and Save Your Marriage is that a spouse has tremendous power to change his or her partner, but that this power is seldom used effectively. An obvious change that needs to be addressed is that the individual cannot continue doing the same things that irritate the spouse. But how do you effectively get what you want from your partner? Included within are nine techniques for creating change in a marital partner. They are: Six weeks without criticism Increase communication Negotiation Mediation Behavioural conditioning Manipulation Personal Growth The ultimatum * Professional help Each technique is thoroughly explained in simple, accessible language and supported with short, vivid examples from real life.These examples address the most common problems encountered in marriage, such as conflicts more than money, sex, in-laws, children and emotional distance. They enable readers to identify with people similar to themselves and provide language that readers may chose to copy.
Kotin has practiced psychiatry and counseled couples and families for over 25 years. He is a board certified psychiatrist.
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