
Ask Me
A Memoir of Daring to Love Differently
$24.33
- Paperback
400 pages
- Release Date
28 July 2026
Summary
A beautiful, vibrant, and surprising memoir about love, desire, and marriage… one question at a time.
In the early hours of dawn in Amsterdam, Deepa Paul rises from her boyfriend’s bed. She gets dressed, slips away with a kiss, and cycles home, where she is welcomed into the arms of her husband, whose contentment is mellow alongside her own. There isn’t a glimmer of shame, deception, or guilt, only the honesty and compassion needed to make this kind of life possible—even if it wasn’t …
Book Details
| ISBN-13: | 9781405966719 |
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| ISBN-10: | 1405966718 |
| Author: | Deepa Paul |
| Publisher: | Penguin Books Ltd |
| Imprint: | Penguin Books Ltd |
| Format: | Paperback |
| Number of Pages: | 400 |
| Release Date: | 28 July 2026 |
| Weight: | 274g |
| Dimensions: | 197mm x 130mm x 27mm |
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Critics Review
Deepa is the epitome of a woman living in her power. Ask Me How It Works provides a stunningly vulnerable and poetic glimpse into her most intimate spaces and through her journey to sexual liberation. If this book doesn’t change your perspective on relationships, nothing will – Gillian Anderson
Deepa is the epitome of a woman living in her power. Ask Me provides a stunningly vulnerable and poetic glimpse into her most intimate spaces and through her journey to sexual liberation. If this book doesn’t change your perspective on relationships, nothing will – Gillian Anderson
A fascinating and big-hearted portrait of sex, intimacy and non-monogamy – Clover Stroud
A fascinating and big-hearted portrait of sex, intimacy and non-monogamy – Clover Stroud
A singingly honest, live-wire of a memoir. Reads like a long-overdue conversation with an old friend, will leave you thrilled and humming with possibility – Yael van der Wouden
A singingly honest, live-wire of a memoir. Reads like a long-overdue conversation with an old friend, will leave you thrilled and humming with possibility – Yael van der Wouden
A spectacular memoir written with verve and style – Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah
A spectacular memoir written with verve and style – Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah
A generous-spirited, imaginative exploration of how to live life differently – Rebecca Wait, author of I’m Sorry You Feel That Way
A generous-spirited, imaginative exploration of how to live life differently – Rebecca Wait, author of I’m Sorry You Feel That Way
About The Author
Deepa Paul
Deepa Paul is a Filipina-Indian author living in Amsterdam. Her writing explores the balance between being a mother, wife, girlfriend, daughter, adventurer, and herself – all at the same time.
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