
It's Not Love, Actually
How to find the life and love you deserve
- Paperback
352 pages
- Release Date
27 April 2026
Summary
‘The guide to modern womanhood.’ - Hannah Ferguson
Have you ever been made to feel less than just because you’re single? Maybe you’re tired of shrinking yourself and your needs? Or just sick of the low-effort, bar-on-the-floor dating culture?
Well, Dee Salmin definitely is … and after years of talking to people about their love lives on triple j’s award-winning podcast The Hook Up, she’s ready to share everything she’s learnt in this part-memoir, part-manifesto on dating, sex …
Book Details
| ISBN-13: | 9781761778896 |
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| ISBN-10: | 1761778897 |
| Author: | Dee Salmin |
| Publisher: | Pan Macmillan Australia |
| Imprint: | Macmillan Australia |
| Format: | Paperback |
| Number of Pages: | 352 |
| Release Date: | 27 April 2026 |
| Weight: | 436g |
| Dimensions: | 36mm x 231mm x 154mm |
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About The Author
Dee Salmin
Dee Salmin is a writer and an award-winning broadcaster, best known for hosting The Hook Up, triple j’s podcast about love, sex, dating, and relationships. After years of talking to people about their love lives, she’s finally opening up about her own. It’s Not Love, Actually is her debut book - part memoir, part manifesto. It’s an unfiltered, feminist guide to raising your standards in a world that keeps telling women to settle.
Dee lives in Melbourne and can usually be found in an op shop looking for gems, whilst simultaneously voice-noting her friends and telling them to decentre men.
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