It's Not Love, Actually, 9781761778896
Paperback
Embrace your worth: find healthy love and yourself.

It's Not Love, Actually

How to find the life and love you deserve

  • Paperback

    352 pages

  • Release Date

    27 April 2026

Summary

‘The guide to modern womanhood.’ - Hannah Ferguson

Have you ever been made to feel less than just because you’re single? Maybe you’re tired of shrinking yourself and your needs? Or just sick of the low-effort, bar-on-the-floor dating culture?

Well, Dee Salmin definitely is … and after years of talking to people about their love lives on triple j’s award-winning podcast The Hook Up, she’s ready to share everything she’s learnt in this part-memoir, part-manifesto on dating, sex …

Book Details

ISBN-13:9781761778896
ISBN-10:1761778897
Author:Dee Salmin
Publisher:Pan Macmillan Australia
Imprint:Macmillan Australia
Format:Paperback
Number of Pages:352
Release Date:27 April 2026
Weight:436g
Dimensions:36mm x 231mm x 154mm
About The Author

Dee Salmin

Dee Salmin is a writer and an award-winning broadcaster, best known for hosting The Hook Up, triple j’s podcast about love, sex, dating, and relationships. After years of talking to people about their love lives, she’s finally opening up about her own. It’s Not Love, Actually is her debut book - part memoir, part manifesto. It’s an unfiltered, feminist guide to raising your standards in a world that keeps telling women to settle.

Dee lives in Melbourne and can usually be found in an op shop looking for gems, whilst simultaneously voice-noting her friends and telling them to decentre men.

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