The Bastard on the Couch: 27 Men Try Really Hard to Explain Their Feelings about Love, Loss, Fatherhood, and Freedom

The husband of "The Bitch in the House" responds with a collection of original essays in which male writers describe what men desire, need, love, and loathe in their relationships and in the world today.

Cathi Hanauer's bestselling "The Bitch in the House: 26 Women Tell the Truth about Sex, Solitude, Work, Motherhood, and Marriage" spurred a national conversation about the level of friction in contemporary marriages and relationships. Now her husband, Daniel Jones, has rallied the men for the "literary equivalent of The Full Monty," in which twenty-seven thoughtful, passionate and often hilarious men, lay it bare when it comes to their wives and girlfriends, their hopes, and fears.

Enough with pop psychiatrists telling us why men lie, cheat, and want nothing more than to laze around the house in front of the TV. Enough with women wondering aloud-at increasing volume-why the men in their lives behave the way they do. The time has come for men to speak for themselves.

Many of the husbands and fathers in these pages contemplate aspects of their personal lives they've never before revealed in print-they kick open the door on their marriages and sex lives, their fathering and domestic conflicts, their most intimate relationships and situations. Yet unlike the average meat-and-potatoes father who still rules the roost, these men are grappling with new ideas of manhood — some they are going after and grabbing, and others that are being thrust upon them by a changing world.

Powerful, heartfelt and irreverent, "The Bastard on the Couch" is a bold, unprecedented glimpse into the dark corners and glaring truths of modern relationships that is guaranteed to amuse, entertain, enrich, and provoke.

“"I loved the book. . . . the essays are powerful, passionate, poignant, and funny." -- London Free Press”

"I loved the book... the essays are powerful, passionate, poignant, and funny." -- London Free Press

Daniel Jones has edited the Modern Love column in the Sunday Styles section of the New York Times since its inception in October 2004. His books include two essay anthologies, Modern Love and The Bastard on the Couch, and a novel, After Lucy, which was a finalist for the Barnes & Noble Discover Award. His writing has appeared in the New York Times, Elle, Parade, Real Simple, Redbook, and elsewhere. He lives in Northampton, Massachusetts, with his wife, writer Cathi Hanauer, and their two children.

Now It's Time for the men to Talk Daniel Jones, the husband of The Bitch in the House editor Cathi Hanauer, has rallied more than two dozen men, ranging in age from twenty-eight to sixty-four, to fill in the other half of the story-telling the truth about what men desire, need, love, and loathe in their relationships. From trophy husbands to the recently divorced to those who cheat and lie and want to make sense of it, The Bastard on the Couch is a bold, unprecedented glimpse into the dark corners and glaring truths of modern relationships. Enlightening, straight-talking, and uncensored, this is the book for every woman who wonders, "What is he thinking?" and for every man who asks, "Am I the only one whose wife/girlfriend/partner won't have sex with/stop micro-managing/be nice to me?"

Daniel Jones, the husband of The Bitch in the House editor Cathi Hanauer, has rallied more than two dozen men, ranging in age from twenty-eight to sixty-four, to fill in the other half of the story -- telling the truth about what men desire, need, love, and loathe in their relationships. From trophy husbands to the recently divorced to those who cheat and lie and want to make sense of it, The Bastard on the Couch is a bold, unprecedented glimpse into the dark corners and glaring truths of modern relationships. Enlightening, straight-talking, and uncensored, this is the book for every woman who wonders, "What is he thinking?" and for every man who asks, "Am I the only one whose wife/girlfriend/partner won't have sex with/stop micro-managing/be nice to me?

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