See You When I See You

“This book is so heartfelt and brilliant that I’ve informed my lawyers not to proceed with the lawsuit for plagiarism against the title. And it was looking like a big win, money-wise. Oh well.”
—Patton Oswalt
“Adam has made me laugh many times. This is the first time he has made me cry. A gorgeous work about accepting the unthinkable with grace, humor, and love. Essential reading for anyone who has ever lost someone, anyone who has ever grieved someone, or anyone who has ever loved someone.”
—Kumail Nanjiani, Academy Award-nominated writer and star of The Big Sick
“A fearless, heartbreaking, and healing book told with searing honesty, love and wit.”
—Bobcat Goldthwait
“Tragedy Plus Time absolutely gutted me—then it filled me with hope. I hate that Adam has this story to tell, but he tells it so beautifully.”
—Tig Notaro
“Self-mockery and true pathos make for a powerful mixture in this nuanced memoir … Cayton-Holland’s wry and wiry voice here elegantly transitions from half-cynical stand-up pose to thoughtful interpretation of the contradictions of grief (“I like to remember her constantly; I try not to think of her at all”) without losing a beat. This is a vivid and heartbreaking account of two bright lives, one blessed with hard-fought success and one cut painfully short.”
—Publishers Weekly
“Funny and darkly poignant.”
—Kirkus Reviews
“A searing memoir…This is Cayton-Holland’s heartbreaking work of genius: his story of Lydia, his best friend and closest confidant, and her tragic suicide at 28. He writes with candor and care of Lydia’s bright light and his own darkest hour, making for an unforgettable read.”
—Booklist
“Inspiring, tragic, and at times heart-rendingly funny.” —People
“Cayton-Holland isn’t afraid to be funny in this book about his sister’s suicide, and the combination—the tragicomedy, if you will—results in a memoir like nothing I’ve read before: tender but witty, sensitive but cutting, curious and honest and self-aware. This book will be billed as a guide to navigating life after grief and I think that’s a mistake—it’s not a guide so much as it is a much-needed admission that there is no guide, that there will be no easy answers, but that it is still okay to see the humor and absurdities in life. Tragedy Plus Time feels like the book I didn’t know I was waiting for.” —Sarah Malley, Newtonville Books, Newton Centre, MA

Adam Cayton-Holland is a national touring comic who has appeared on Conan, @midnight, The Meltdown with Jonah and Kumail, Happy Endings, Deadbeat, Flophouse, Hidden America with Jonah Ray, and was named one of Esquire’s “25 Comics to Watch” and Variety’s “10 Comics to Watch.” Adam co-created, writes, and stars in truTV’s Those Who Can’t along with his fellow members of the comedy troupe, The Grawlix. His albums I Don’t Know If I Happy and Backyards are available on iTunes, and his writing has appeared in Village Voice, Spin, The A.V. Club, and The Atlantic. Adam has been described as “genial” and “with pretty decent teeth.” He is the author of Tragedy Plus Time.

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